BIG annoying Q: Bila Kahwin??

How funny it is to annoy an already annoying person??hakhakk...;) Yes, I'm an annoying person in most circumstances. i ask questions a lot and my mother often says, 'si penyiasat ni, pigi tanya polis lah soalan mu tu". But nowadays people tend to ask me "when r u getting married?" and i get annoyed by it! Just because all other people in their tempurung little world is getting married, they expect EVERYONE should join the club a.s.a.p, they'r acting like "fashion victoms" for weddings..i'm like, get a life! Like i want to live yours anyway?? I mean there are a lot of things i want to do before getting married because half of the things in my list do not include "getting hyped over an overly priced wedding where everybdy becomes nosy n such, living in not in yr own place, having kids i cant afford to take care of, borrowing money (from my parents), asking money (from my parents), having to look after,please, and make sure everything is perfect for the husband 24 hours a day, etc." When you are mentally and emotionally not ready, you end up fighting all the time with d guy u sleep next to every night. It's better to make sure you are with the right person who ur happy to accept all of his qualities and even flaws. Also, I notice that marriage is a hard work and Im a big fan of PREPARATION. Just like a lesson plan u know...if u plan a good lesson plan with all the right methods and materials, even the scariest student can be tamed, and everybody's happy at the end of the lesson. We would even make a song about it~! Dadadaa~~